LETS TALK ABOUT S*X!!
LETS TALK ABOUT SEXXXXXXX .
Hey there, new mama! FIRST OFF CONGRATS! Now, let’s talk about something that might not be on your radar just yet: sex postpartum. It’s a topic that can feel a bit daunting, but trust me, you’re not alone in navigating it.
1-DOCTORS ORDERS:
First things first: your doctor’s advice is key. It’s super important to wait until you get the green light from them before diving back into the bedroom. Everyone is different, some people don’t think 6 weeks is enough time; while others can’t wait to get back to sex. I know, it can be hard when you’re feeling a mix of emotions and maybe even a bit of excitement, but your body needs time to heal properly so wait until you have your check up!
2-EMBRACE THE CHANGES:
Now, let’s get real about what happens down there post-baby. Your body has gone through some incredible changes, and it’s totally normal to feel a bit different physically and emotionally. You might be dealing with soreness, hormonal shifts, or just feeling plain tired. That’s all part of the journey and NORMAL! Things will get back to how they used too… or maybe even better!
3-VIBRATORS:
One cool trick that some moms swear by (INCLUDING ALL OF US) is incorporating a vibrator into your intimacy routine. It’s not just for fun, but it can actually help distract you from any uncomfortable feelings you might have. Plus, it’s a great way to reconnect with your partner and rediscover what feels good for you.
4-TAKE IT SLOW:
When you do feel ready to get back in the groove, remember to take it slow. It’s okay to laugh, take breaks, and enjoy the process of rediscovering intimacy together.
5-COMMUNICATE:
Speaking of communication, don’t be shy about sharing how you’re feeling with your partner. They’re likely feeling a mix of emotions too, and being open and honest can help you both navigate this new chapter with love and understanding.
So, there you have it! Sex postpartum is DEFINITELY a journey, not a race. Embrace the changes, listen to your body, and don’t forget to have fun along the way. You’re doing amazing, and remember, there’s no right or wrong way to navigate this. Trust yourself, trust your partner, and enjoy every moment!!!
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